All right I just had to interrupt my series on Raising Self-Esteem to go on a rant for a few minutes. I am seeing all over the internet how women are upset with the double standard of guys being able to sleep with as many women as they want, but if a woman does this then she is a h*e. One of my good friends even wrote a post about it. Now let me say I love her blog, but Oh Puhlease!
Well Little Red Riding Hood, if you don’t want to get bit stop feeding the wolf. Don’t get mad if men understand that the odds are against turning a h*e into a housewife. There are women that you sex and women that you marry. Men know the difference. Women do not. Too many women try to turn that h*e into a hubby. Bad move.
Not only do they pet these wolves, but they take them home, feed them and let them lay around on their couch. These wolves are good for nothing more than procreation, but women have allowed to become house pets. Well you know what happens when you try to turn a wolf into a house pet? It usually does not end well for Lil Red Riding Hood.
Now I am not saying that all sexually free or sexually liberated women cannot be good wives. That is not true. What I do know is that most men are not going to take the chance to find out. If she wants to get a train run on her, participate in orgies or have “take a number” sexual partners just understand that most men will not wife you. You can like it or not, but that is just the way it is.
So how can women change this? They can start applying the same rules that guys do. Stop making excuses for him. If he has been wildly sexually active and that is not what you want then don’t date him. Give men the same treatment that you have been getting.
Of course this will never work. There are way too many thirsty women that will be happy to sleep with any man that breathes. How do you think all these worthless men can find a place to lay their head and get sex? Even these guys know not to marry these desperate women. Well unless they need some money.
So ladies, here is the deal. If you want to have assorted sexcapades, then by all means do it. Just try to find a man that is into that same thing. Even these guys can be hypocrites, but at least you have more leverage with them. Most men understand that when you have been highly sexually active it will be hard for you to settle down. Why do you think guys have trouble being with just one woman? Most men are not going to take chances and neither should you.
So what do you think? Can you turn a H*e into a Hubby?
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